E.F.T/Patience
Hi All,
Im a New E.F.T Practitioner as well as Emo-Trance Pract, and i use prodomantlyEFT on myself, i use it that much on myself the points that i tap on hurt, but i dont seem to get anywhere with things i am tapping on.
i yawn alot so i know something is working but how much i dont know, i use a varied amount of setup phases/affirmations and i go to the issue i find my mind sends me to.
i shout it/dont shout it anything to get the best result.:)
i either get all my tapping done in the bath whilst i chill and the mind gives me pictures or events to work on or i rubmy sore point though the day.if something dodgy happens i find it helps!!
But my Patience levels are just the same as before and i still find what i have been tapping on will still be there, i believe in EFT that much that i will be working towards becoming a therapistA.S.A.P with other Energy Therapies involved but i dont seem to get the issues dealt with that i feel are not good thrats for myself or a therapist. most of the things i tap on are my past or patience levels and what they produce
i Know that this worksbut just dont seem to be getting any results that are producing amore patient me[sm=banghead.gif].
Ive done the Emo-Trance Course as well as going to the Energy Cone Techneque at the end of this month, i can sellEFT to a donkey and it seems to help others when i do it for them so just a little patience and the idea that a list of things seem to be adding up for me to tap on seems silly, so if you have any ideas/advice/tricks/tips/etc etc i am all ears
Hugs and Thanks
Phil
Answers:
It's the old thing Phil, it always seems to be harder to treat ourselves than to treat others.
My recommendation would be to find another EFT practitioner locally and do some therapy swaps with them. i.e. you treat them and they treat you.
We like to think that we understand the mind so well that we are doing it all properly for ourselves, but in reality we understad the mind so well that we put up unconscious blocks to stop ourselves dealing with our issues. It can be tricky at times. ;)
Love and Reiki Hugs
Edited to correct typo
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Ha! Ha! Ha! never easy is it
Thanks for that, always did find it easier to help others whilst i was not balanced, was really hoping to get the small things out of the way before i needed to deal with the big things, but whaen i look at it you might just be right on what you say and the mind might be blocking me from ending this pattern of thought
Thankyou Energylz
Hugs
Phil
Answers:
Hi Phil,
Then let your mind do the sorting out - trouble is when you have to construct things to affect your subconscious mind you invariably use the conscious to do this and that means it's open to interpretation.
Try closing your eyes thinking of your issue - say it out loud if it helps and something will pop into your mind. It maybe quite bizarre, like a coathanger, a smell, a taste or sound. Importantly don't try to interpret it and don't conjure anything - just use whatever pops into your mind first. Then instead of using consciously constructed affirmations, focus intently on your symbol whilst doing your preferred method of tapping or rubbing. No need to batter yourself to death.
Very, very simple and very, very effective.
Answers:
Hi Phil,
Could taking the Impatiens Bach Flower remedy serve you while you work through your stuff?
I feel that you are impatient with yourself about working through your impatience:D (and I so know how that feels).
If I borrowed the hat of my therapist, she would ask 'What is one tiny step you could take towards being more patient?' Have a play - if you were going to be patient today, what would it look like, how would you act, how would you feel, how would you be?
Would you like to spend just ONE MINUTE closing your eyes and imagining it? Or even just ONE MINUTE role playing it?
I think you need to ease up on yourself and I bet you're quick to berate yourself. (I'm sensing an impatience with yourself as you try to work through your issues) So, be gentle with yourself. if you were looking at a 5 year old Phil, chucking his stuff across a room because it's not working out and his tower has fallen down for the umpteenth time what would you say to him?
And who's voice is being impatient with you / other people / situations anyway?? ;)
Could you write down one occassion on which you WERE patient and do that every day? Just one thing....................
Namaste
Amethyst x
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[hr]
I think you need to ease up on yourself and I bet you're quick to berate yourself. (I'm sensing an impatience with yourself as you try to work through your issues) So, be gentle with yourself. if you were looking at a 5 year old Phil, chucking his stuff across a room because it's not working out and his tower has fallen down for the umpteenth time what would you say to him?
And who's voice is being impatient with you / other people / situations anyway?? ;)
[hr]
Amethyst
Ha Ha Ha,
I'd probally have a tantrum with myself as a 5year old, most deferenatly get annoyed. when i did hypnosis i worked on Little Phil and on a few occasions i gained a real feeling of protection and living thoughts for my young soul. i even ended upbringing a picture of myself as a child when i got myself ahouseso that little Philcould see what has become of his future, i have him looking over the lounge area and if im feeling really connected to that way of thinking he gets a few taps(eft) or a good talking too,even agentle wink if a nice girls about the house...i believe in the Little me having a massive effect on my future so i got all this Hypnotherapy to defuse it. But as with anything there is always something to heal in are lives so i try all things, sadly i havent gained the ability to stop/get in touch with the little soul of mine and tell him to chill out a bit."let me deal with this in a adult way"
I will be doing a course on Energy cone therapy so hoping this might help as well as the constant EFT i do on myself.
I loved Hypnosis but i would only get a little done before the mind shut down and started to play up or do nothing, i could take myself down to my special place and even on one occasion i gained pictures telling me what the theapistwas going to say before she said it sort of thing so i loved it but being impatient has caused Work/Relationship/Social/Family/Mental problems/reactions so i feel the need to gain relief from this issue i have.
!!!! PRODUCING MORE IMPATIENCE !!!!
I am impatient with myself and people, i have a list of things that really get under my skin.
People that eat loudly send my into space, i have tapped on that one and dont seem to get anywere, slurper of drinks AS WELL SEND ME CRAZY etc etc,
I have trying Reiki as im a reiki2, got my mum to help as she is a master but it just doesnt seem to leave my way of being.
Hugs
Patient Phil[:@]
Answers:
I am impatient with myself and people, i have a list of things that really get under my skin.
People that eat loudly send my into space, i have tapped on that one and dont seem to get anywere, slurper of drinks AS WELL SEND ME CRAZY etc etc,
.........................
just a thought Phil, with the section above, I know you feel you need to work on patience, but could it be tolerance you need to work on?
Answers:
fleur
Yes that sounds like a idea, change the boundry, might be working on the wrong thing with people.
with the patience i feel that i want something to be a way or to be sorted by a time limit, i know what i want a find it very frustating about how long it takes or peoples attitudes
so it might not even be patience it might be as you say tolerance might be the thing
Phil xxx
Im a New E.F.T Practitioner as well as Emo-Trance Pract, and i use prodomantlyEFT on myself, i use it that much on myself the points that i tap on hurt, but i dont seem to get anywhere with things i am tapping on.
i yawn alot so i know something is working but how much i dont know, i use a varied amount of setup phases/affirmations and i go to the issue i find my mind sends me to.
i shout it/dont shout it anything to get the best result.:)
i either get all my tapping done in the bath whilst i chill and the mind gives me pictures or events to work on or i rubmy sore point though the day.if something dodgy happens i find it helps!!
But my Patience levels are just the same as before and i still find what i have been tapping on will still be there, i believe in EFT that much that i will be working towards becoming a therapistA.S.A.P with other Energy Therapies involved but i dont seem to get the issues dealt with that i feel are not good thrats for myself or a therapist. most of the things i tap on are my past or patience levels and what they produce
i Know that this worksbut just dont seem to be getting any results that are producing amore patient me[sm=banghead.gif].
Ive done the Emo-Trance Course as well as going to the Energy Cone Techneque at the end of this month, i can sellEFT to a donkey and it seems to help others when i do it for them so just a little patience and the idea that a list of things seem to be adding up for me to tap on seems silly, so if you have any ideas/advice/tricks/tips/etc etc i am all ears
Hugs and Thanks
Phil
Answers:
It's the old thing Phil, it always seems to be harder to treat ourselves than to treat others.
My recommendation would be to find another EFT practitioner locally and do some therapy swaps with them. i.e. you treat them and they treat you.
We like to think that we understand the mind so well that we are doing it all properly for ourselves, but in reality we understad the mind so well that we put up unconscious blocks to stop ourselves dealing with our issues. It can be tricky at times. ;)
Love and Reiki Hugs
Edited to correct typo
Answers:
Ha! Ha! Ha! never easy is it
Thanks for that, always did find it easier to help others whilst i was not balanced, was really hoping to get the small things out of the way before i needed to deal with the big things, but whaen i look at it you might just be right on what you say and the mind might be blocking me from ending this pattern of thought
Thankyou Energylz
Hugs
Phil
Answers:
Hi Phil,
Then let your mind do the sorting out - trouble is when you have to construct things to affect your subconscious mind you invariably use the conscious to do this and that means it's open to interpretation.
Try closing your eyes thinking of your issue - say it out loud if it helps and something will pop into your mind. It maybe quite bizarre, like a coathanger, a smell, a taste or sound. Importantly don't try to interpret it and don't conjure anything - just use whatever pops into your mind first. Then instead of using consciously constructed affirmations, focus intently on your symbol whilst doing your preferred method of tapping or rubbing. No need to batter yourself to death.
Very, very simple and very, very effective.
Answers:
Hi Phil,
Could taking the Impatiens Bach Flower remedy serve you while you work through your stuff?
I feel that you are impatient with yourself about working through your impatience:D (and I so know how that feels).
If I borrowed the hat of my therapist, she would ask 'What is one tiny step you could take towards being more patient?' Have a play - if you were going to be patient today, what would it look like, how would you act, how would you feel, how would you be?
Would you like to spend just ONE MINUTE closing your eyes and imagining it? Or even just ONE MINUTE role playing it?
I think you need to ease up on yourself and I bet you're quick to berate yourself. (I'm sensing an impatience with yourself as you try to work through your issues) So, be gentle with yourself. if you were looking at a 5 year old Phil, chucking his stuff across a room because it's not working out and his tower has fallen down for the umpteenth time what would you say to him?
And who's voice is being impatient with you / other people / situations anyway?? ;)
Could you write down one occassion on which you WERE patient and do that every day? Just one thing....................
Namaste
Amethyst x
Answers:
[hr]
I think you need to ease up on yourself and I bet you're quick to berate yourself. (I'm sensing an impatience with yourself as you try to work through your issues) So, be gentle with yourself. if you were looking at a 5 year old Phil, chucking his stuff across a room because it's not working out and his tower has fallen down for the umpteenth time what would you say to him?
And who's voice is being impatient with you / other people / situations anyway?? ;)
[hr]
Amethyst
Ha Ha Ha,
I'd probally have a tantrum with myself as a 5year old, most deferenatly get annoyed. when i did hypnosis i worked on Little Phil and on a few occasions i gained a real feeling of protection and living thoughts for my young soul. i even ended upbringing a picture of myself as a child when i got myself ahouseso that little Philcould see what has become of his future, i have him looking over the lounge area and if im feeling really connected to that way of thinking he gets a few taps(eft) or a good talking too,even agentle wink if a nice girls about the house...i believe in the Little me having a massive effect on my future so i got all this Hypnotherapy to defuse it. But as with anything there is always something to heal in are lives so i try all things, sadly i havent gained the ability to stop/get in touch with the little soul of mine and tell him to chill out a bit."let me deal with this in a adult way"
I will be doing a course on Energy cone therapy so hoping this might help as well as the constant EFT i do on myself.
I loved Hypnosis but i would only get a little done before the mind shut down and started to play up or do nothing, i could take myself down to my special place and even on one occasion i gained pictures telling me what the theapistwas going to say before she said it sort of thing so i loved it but being impatient has caused Work/Relationship/Social/Family/Mental problems/reactions so i feel the need to gain relief from this issue i have.
!!!! PRODUCING MORE IMPATIENCE !!!!
I am impatient with myself and people, i have a list of things that really get under my skin.
People that eat loudly send my into space, i have tapped on that one and dont seem to get anywere, slurper of drinks AS WELL SEND ME CRAZY etc etc,
I have trying Reiki as im a reiki2, got my mum to help as she is a master but it just doesnt seem to leave my way of being.
Hugs
Patient Phil[:@]
Answers:
I am impatient with myself and people, i have a list of things that really get under my skin.
People that eat loudly send my into space, i have tapped on that one and dont seem to get anywere, slurper of drinks AS WELL SEND ME CRAZY etc etc,
.........................
just a thought Phil, with the section above, I know you feel you need to work on patience, but could it be tolerance you need to work on?
Answers:
fleur
Yes that sounds like a idea, change the boundry, might be working on the wrong thing with people.
with the patience i feel that i want something to be a way or to be sorted by a time limit, i know what i want a find it very frustating about how long it takes or peoples attitudes
so it might not even be patience it might be as you say tolerance might be the thing
Phil xxx