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had a very painful break up that has left me emotionally wrecked. it was volatile till the very end and I am afraid to move on.
does anyone know of any crystals that can help please?
rose quartz doesn't work for me as it makes me cry so much. I have been crying buckets as I believed he was my soulmate. we had so much in common and I really miss him. Ia m depressing those around me as they can't console me and I can't hold my head up high.
i prefer sleeping as I can see his face. I haven't felt like this over anyone before. when i sleep i have nightmares and I am not eating...just drinking water.
I miss him terribly....but there is no way of fixing the realtionship as much as i pray.
I want to stop this rut and be able to let go.
help please!

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Sorry to hear of your problems. Try lepidolite, it enhances standing in your own space, free from the influences of others. It is a claming stone that soothes sleep disturbances and emotional stress, bringing deep emotional healing. (Crystal Bible, Judy Hall)

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Hi mardigras
So sorry to hear
you are feeling
that way..i left
an unsatisfactory
relationship about
9 months ago
now & i know
everyones
different but
time & the
realisation that
life is better
now have helped
me to heal.
I think when
a relationship
ends you need
to grieve it before
you can move
on & i know rose
quartz helps to
heal your heart
so maybe you
just need to cry
to let it all go
at the moment?
Pink calcite is
said to be good
for self love &
Carnelian to be
for letting go of
the past..

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Oops sorry!
If you're into
taking bach flower remedies
then star of
bethlehem is
really helpful
for shock &
sadness & walnut
is for breaking
links with the
past.
If you want me
to look up any
more flower
remedies let me
know..
Love,
Anna

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I've found rhodocrocite wonderful for easing emotional hurts from the past. Another one to try is pink tourmaline - it's vertically striated which helps move energy away efficiently and it has a high lithium content in it, like the lepidolite that Serewen suggests. Stones with a high lithium load help in soothing nerves. Perhaps you could take a bubble bath with the stones of your choice to get the most benefit from them? This way you can relax physically and emotionally and then take yourself off to bed for a rest.

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Thanks so much everyone. I feel it's the intial shock of it all has worn me out. I will wrote the crystals names down and had a look in a few shops and hold the crystals mentioned and see what happens. I have impatiens and another for peace. Star of bethlehem may be an idea!
i came home with more than expected lol as the lady is closing the shop she was having a large sale I grabbed quite a few
watermelon tourmaline pendant
yellow flourite
merlinite
blue kyanite
2 rainbow obsidian tumbles
chinese writting rock
pink calcite
lepidolite with pink tourmaline
gemmy rose quartz
tanzanite
2 blue sapphires ( not the high expensive ones)
yellow small honey calcite sphere with rainbows.
i bought too much as half of me was letting go another half of me felt it was hanging on.
erm..crystals are addictive
MG

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i am working with the lepidolite and it seems to be working really well. I fell asleep with it.
The shock was when I woke up and his voice face has been blocked from my mind.
How do I keep in that state of mind ? as I have had that before but it has come back the thoughts.
It feels like a light hypnosis.
p.s I saw some hazel raven sprays has anyone used this with good results?
any ideas?
thanks
MG

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I'm so sorry to hear about the terrible trauma of the ending of your relationship, mardigras. It's so dreadful to feel totally cut off from someone you adore.
The lepidolite sounds a great suggestion, I have only one of Michael Geinger's books to hand but it seems to bear out what is written about the stone in Judy Hall's book. I'm off to get me a piece now!
big hug, mardigras. May you find a way to truly and fully grieve your loss, and then find peace and your true self.
wibble xx

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Thanks appreciated,
Still grieving. I am trying to work on a self soul retrievel as well calling back my energy.
The lepidolite i have is purple and rough but i guess any lepidolite is ok & I am sure you get what crystal you are meant to have. That's the way i figure it anyhow.
MG
wow I just found this!
blue lepidolite wowzer!!!I want one[&o]

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[sm=nature-smiley-008.gif]Wow those crystals you found sound fantastic! Not sure I know what most of them look like, butI can imagine!Yes they are adictive, I do findI tend to be more drawn to one or two types than others. Mainly rose quartz, amethyst and clear quartz. I'm lucky enough to work with someone who has been a crystalholic for over twenty years so is always bringing in different crystals to work and sharing her knowledge. Ooops here I go again, waffling on!

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I love crystals myself. yes I was lucky i bought some more as I doubt i will find them again I also purchased 2 books as they were on sale crystal therapy d virtue and melodys loves in the earth.
I wanted to buy the flower essence to cut ties bought star of bethlehem as I couldn't recall the name had black walnut stuck in my mind for some reason.
im doing some voluntary work at the moment
nps i can waffle on like no other lol:-)
g2g
tc
MG
thanks

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I keep a piece of rose quartz on my tc set in in my room. a piece of jade in my bed.
a crucifix and holy items with me now.
my bedroom mayhave too many crystals in it now but I felt the need to. I think i need to stop switching crystals as much as it must be confusing the flow of things.
thanks
MG:D

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You will be drawn to the crystals you most need with you on a daily basis. Try to go with your gut instinct/feeling on the day rather than what you 'know' about them with your intelligent mind.
If your room has many crystals and you feel your energy needs stabilized, remove the crystals that are in the North of the room (you can figure out where the north is if you know where the sun rises and sets in relation to your room). This is intuitive guidance to help clear your mind and energies. Nothing more or less, so go with what feels right to you.
With love
Namaste

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Hi mardigras
Sorry to hear about what you are going through. Years ago I went through hell from my brother when my mother died. I found that to make the break from him, which to save my sanity, I had to - I visualised the cutting of the umbilican chord between him and me - and it worked. Only had to do it once! I know its not crystals - but it worked for me.

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I would certainly agree with lepidolite and also rose quartz, merlinite and amethyst.
Hoping everything will begin to improve for you very soon.

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the north of the room has a few crystals in it. I have been given a spanish worry egg it's bright green no idea what it is. it does seem to work if you run your fingers over it.
by a friend so i kept it there and I realised there is just too many crystals there and ones i have lost while asleep are probably looming under pillows I often sleep with a crystal and find it vanishes!
I have tried some creamy calcite and it made me feel lower. I slept late. I decided to try it as it was stated that it's aligned with Azrael.
not a good chocie as it's not boosted me but depleted me.
I will stick to rose quartz/lepidolite.
I do have some merlinite I will see what it feels like to hold.
I keep getting a feeling I need something new.I was shown a very deep coloured amethyst egg.
i pulled a card for myself and it saidI need to feng shui. I certainly need to, for a decent nights sleep. I am running on empty.
I need to boost myself up so I can do more.
sorry for your loss hugs[sm=angel-smiley-027.gif]
ps guinevere love the arwen pic she's stunning isn't she...wonder if she minds if i borrow aragorn for a hug.
crystalcub
I have since found one crystal I didn't know what it was but asked around it has tourmaline pink and lepidolite together. I haven't placed it in the bath as i worry it would disintergrate. a soothing bath sounds good.
I have been cutting chords more and more and releasing. I am focusing on me and relationships maybe in time but right now I don't feel the need to engage in it all.
I am happier helping people with readings when and where I can it makes me feel a whole lot happier to do that.

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had to switch crystals again as for some reasonI have a headache and insomnia I am sleeping only in REM stage so the dreams are vivid & nightmares. Then I don't sleep at all I wake up exhausted and not eating as well as I should be as I feel physically sick about it all.I haven't slept now for 2 nights.So,I am using chevron amethyst. and a arch angel michael empowerment spray by hazel raven.I also have aa gabriels call spray but don't want to use too much so trying to use very little of everything.
I try to keep my room as clear as possible and I am using a relaxation cd for inner peace and calm.at night and in the morning to relax me.
I did have a chakra clearing cd but lost that& not sure where it is...and my green french connection glasses. so if anyone locates where they are great thanks as I really miss them.
still trying and plodding along and praying to the angels and being patientbecause they are working overtime and doing the best they can bless them.
thanks all
MG

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I'm sorry to hear that you are having such a rough time Mardigras. One of the techniques I have learnt on my crystal therapy course is 'Cutting the ties' - it is probably the same as the chord cutting you talk about. The technique comes from a book called 'Cutting the ties that bind' by Phyllis Krystal. I have found it very beneficial.
It also sounds to me as though you are trying to deal with this on your own, maybe you would also benefit from receiving healing from another person.
I hope you feel well again soon
love & light
meurig

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