Dear FIONA ....
Oh Fi!
I feel so horrible and far more than just foolish!:(
Hi Tinity and Soar ... you're both so right of course [&:]
:([>:][&:]
@nnie[X(]
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Dear Annie
Thanks for your post.
What book? Im sorry hun but i dont know what your on about?[&:]
I really have NO idea?
Im so sorry that any 'health' posts i have posted before have so obviously upset you,
so i will stop and wont bother in future.[>:]
I wasn't ''wool crying'' but simply asking people for some advice/there thoughts on that topics as i thought that's what these boards were for...help/advice/swapping ideas chat etc
I haveactually taken many peoples advice and thanked then for it and have also changed my lifestyle and diet!! i do take responsibility for MY LIFE, thank you
I also dont see where this suddenly came from? Infact it really shocked and upset me
Because apart from repying to say THANK YOU to people who took the time to help and posted weeks ago (i was only being polite!) i have said NOTHING.:(
I dont think this had to be done on the boards a simple email to me would of done but fair enough. Afraid i didnt see it as ''meaning well'' at all, but a way of making me FEEL and LOOk stupid in front of everyone else.
I can not even beggin to tell you how much your post has hurt me
But Each to their own.
Thanks for your advice anyway. was 'kind' of you to bother.
Fiona
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Hi @nnie.
Im not quite sure where this has come from, but your comments about Fiona not taking your advise on certain health matters sounds a little self righteous and egotistical to me.[>:]
We all have queries and ask for advise and assistance on HP once in a while. We all also have our own points of view and different approaches to our mental and physical health.
I personally feel that these are 2 of the main features of HP that keep me logging on everyday.
However, in my opinion, to receive such a public 'slating' from someone who I know Fi considers as a 'nice lady' is completely incomprehensible.
To say that her posts for valuable advice are 'crying wolf'????
What is your problem?
From the outside of this situation (as I am WELL aware, this is where I stand) it seems that you have at sometime offered advice to Fi and have refered to 'your bible'. However at this time she has chosen not to take this advice and you are slightly miffed.
Not everyone has the same belief systems and faiths Annie.
I believe that maybe you have got that 'bible' of yours so far up your own backside that it is interfering with your brain.
And you had the NERVE to send me a sad pm when you incorrectly thought I had publicly had a go at you!!!
Pot, kettle, black my friend.
T
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Fiona honey, believe me YOU are not the one who looks foolish here. keep asking your questions darling and take from the answers only that which resonates with you and don't worry or get upset by other people's comments
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Thank you Soar
Maybe i am just too soft and take things to heart but Annies post really did upset me.
In fact i found myself crying by the time i had finished reading it. :(
I think what made it worse is im not wuite sure where it all came from or what it is i have done wrong?
Thank you for your kind words [sm=hug.gif]
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You havent done anything wrong Fi[sm=1kis.gif]
Go for it and post till your hearts content!
Tx
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Thank you T [sm=hug.gif]
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I feel so sorry that you got hurt this way Fiona, you of all people are doing a fine job, keeping HP alive with questions that interest all of us. The fact that we write down our postings gives us plenty of time to consider if we hurt someone by what we mean is right. It can happen, has happened. Believer asked to forgive him and just let us start anew. We learn from the mistakes we make. Communication and understanding is difficult. Just feel sorry you got hurt......Had to laugh about Trinity's comment though...up your etc. She really stood up for you!
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Fiona
just to say that I have never found anything wrong with your postings, far from it. rather they are stimulating and interesting and you touch on many subjects too which is great. So... keep going and keep posting. You are among friends.
Love and peace.
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Dear Fiona,
Annie will probably never forgive me for betraying her trust like this, but this morning I received two e-mails from her - well, I just think that her own words will answer all the hurt you so understandably feel. Annie is just so full of love and kindness, but rather too enthusiastic here in her desire to help.
Subject: TOO AWFUL
Woke up with a jolt this morning ... knowing that I'd written something so terrible and out of character to poor, innocent Fiona on HP.
I don't know what got into me :(
I did something soooooooo terrible .... something I still can't understand. I posted an awful post to her, telling her so bluntly to take more responsibility for her health etc. It was really nasty and harsh. I just don't know what got into me. ......
(She then tells of sending e-mails which didn't arrive etc)
Anyhow, boof! I found the emails I'd sent her, but instead of sending them again, I deleted them and wrote an awful, horrible post instead. It's eating me up inside ... most because I hate asking for forgiveness when I know that I don't deserve it ... it just seems to easy and altho' Christianity always teaches us that God forgives all our sins, I can't accept that easily ... and believe rather that we need to feel pain for whatever we've done wrong first ... and that only then can we turn to Him and the person we've wronged and asked for forgiveness. Yet, I can't not write my apologies & have her thinking that I just don't care either. Oh Judy ... I don't know what on earth got into me. I was not in any bad mood when I wrote it ......
Something I'm just going to have to deal with .... I know! I know! :(((((((((((((((((( Maybe my message not to take everything to heart so much & to give whatever advice I can & then leave it there! Oh wow! That's tough ... but I'm going to have to try. Instead I read something on HP or from those around me, and spend hours and hours thinking about it ... letting it eat away at me.
E'nuf for poor you too now .... sorry this is sooooooooo long Judy!
God bless .... with love,
@nnie.
Sadly Fiona, though people don't usually mean to be hurtful, others often do get upset by what they write on HP (as elsewhere in life) - guess it's just human nature. However, what is different here with Annie is that normally you don't get this sort of remorse or apology which is so genuine here. So, I hope you will forgive her and I hope Annie will forgive herself (and me!) and that you will both go forward as friends. It was because she cares about you that she wrote like she did - no other reason.
Love and hugs to you Fiona,
Judy
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marijke
Thank you for your post, was really kind of you.
Yes T made me laugh too, its nice to know not everybody hates me after all! :)
Hope your well?
Love
Fiona
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Awww Alex
Thank you SO much for your post.
You really made me smile and feel much happier about the whole situation.
Your posts are always so wise and make so much sense compaired to mine! lol
It means a lot that you like them and dont mind me posting.
You really are geat friends!! :)
Fiona [sm=grouphug.gif]
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Thank you Judy for sharing this
Annie has sent me a couple of emails and i noticed in one there was a message she had sent to you in it. So she already showed it to me so dont worry she wont fall out with you [sm=hug.gif][sm=hug.gif] was very kind of you to try and help. :)
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Absolutely nobody could hate you Fiona[sm=grouphug.gif]
luv & peace
stormdeva x
I feel so horrible and far more than just foolish!:(
Hi Tinity and Soar ... you're both so right of course [&:]
:([>:][&:]
@nnie[X(]
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Dear Annie
Thanks for your post.
What book? Im sorry hun but i dont know what your on about?[&:]
I really have NO idea?
Im so sorry that any 'health' posts i have posted before have so obviously upset you,
so i will stop and wont bother in future.[>:]
I wasn't ''wool crying'' but simply asking people for some advice/there thoughts on that topics as i thought that's what these boards were for...help/advice/swapping ideas chat etc
I haveactually taken many peoples advice and thanked then for it and have also changed my lifestyle and diet!! i do take responsibility for MY LIFE, thank you
I also dont see where this suddenly came from? Infact it really shocked and upset me
Because apart from repying to say THANK YOU to people who took the time to help and posted weeks ago (i was only being polite!) i have said NOTHING.:(
I dont think this had to be done on the boards a simple email to me would of done but fair enough. Afraid i didnt see it as ''meaning well'' at all, but a way of making me FEEL and LOOk stupid in front of everyone else.
I can not even beggin to tell you how much your post has hurt me
But Each to their own.
Thanks for your advice anyway. was 'kind' of you to bother.
Fiona
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Hi @nnie.
Im not quite sure where this has come from, but your comments about Fiona not taking your advise on certain health matters sounds a little self righteous and egotistical to me.[>:]
We all have queries and ask for advise and assistance on HP once in a while. We all also have our own points of view and different approaches to our mental and physical health.
I personally feel that these are 2 of the main features of HP that keep me logging on everyday.
However, in my opinion, to receive such a public 'slating' from someone who I know Fi considers as a 'nice lady' is completely incomprehensible.
To say that her posts for valuable advice are 'crying wolf'????
What is your problem?
From the outside of this situation (as I am WELL aware, this is where I stand) it seems that you have at sometime offered advice to Fi and have refered to 'your bible'. However at this time she has chosen not to take this advice and you are slightly miffed.
Not everyone has the same belief systems and faiths Annie.
I believe that maybe you have got that 'bible' of yours so far up your own backside that it is interfering with your brain.
And you had the NERVE to send me a sad pm when you incorrectly thought I had publicly had a go at you!!!
Pot, kettle, black my friend.
T
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Fiona honey, believe me YOU are not the one who looks foolish here. keep asking your questions darling and take from the answers only that which resonates with you and don't worry or get upset by other people's comments
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Thank you Soar
Maybe i am just too soft and take things to heart but Annies post really did upset me.
In fact i found myself crying by the time i had finished reading it. :(
I think what made it worse is im not wuite sure where it all came from or what it is i have done wrong?
Thank you for your kind words [sm=hug.gif]
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You havent done anything wrong Fi[sm=1kis.gif]
Go for it and post till your hearts content!
Tx
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Thank you T [sm=hug.gif]
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I feel so sorry that you got hurt this way Fiona, you of all people are doing a fine job, keeping HP alive with questions that interest all of us. The fact that we write down our postings gives us plenty of time to consider if we hurt someone by what we mean is right. It can happen, has happened. Believer asked to forgive him and just let us start anew. We learn from the mistakes we make. Communication and understanding is difficult. Just feel sorry you got hurt......Had to laugh about Trinity's comment though...up your etc. She really stood up for you!
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Fiona
just to say that I have never found anything wrong with your postings, far from it. rather they are stimulating and interesting and you touch on many subjects too which is great. So... keep going and keep posting. You are among friends.
Love and peace.
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Dear Fiona,
Annie will probably never forgive me for betraying her trust like this, but this morning I received two e-mails from her - well, I just think that her own words will answer all the hurt you so understandably feel. Annie is just so full of love and kindness, but rather too enthusiastic here in her desire to help.
Subject: TOO AWFUL
Woke up with a jolt this morning ... knowing that I'd written something so terrible and out of character to poor, innocent Fiona on HP.
I don't know what got into me :(
I did something soooooooo terrible .... something I still can't understand. I posted an awful post to her, telling her so bluntly to take more responsibility for her health etc. It was really nasty and harsh. I just don't know what got into me. ......
(She then tells of sending e-mails which didn't arrive etc)
Anyhow, boof! I found the emails I'd sent her, but instead of sending them again, I deleted them and wrote an awful, horrible post instead. It's eating me up inside ... most because I hate asking for forgiveness when I know that I don't deserve it ... it just seems to easy and altho' Christianity always teaches us that God forgives all our sins, I can't accept that easily ... and believe rather that we need to feel pain for whatever we've done wrong first ... and that only then can we turn to Him and the person we've wronged and asked for forgiveness. Yet, I can't not write my apologies & have her thinking that I just don't care either. Oh Judy ... I don't know what on earth got into me. I was not in any bad mood when I wrote it ......
Something I'm just going to have to deal with .... I know! I know! :(((((((((((((((((( Maybe my message not to take everything to heart so much & to give whatever advice I can & then leave it there! Oh wow! That's tough ... but I'm going to have to try. Instead I read something on HP or from those around me, and spend hours and hours thinking about it ... letting it eat away at me.
E'nuf for poor you too now .... sorry this is sooooooooo long Judy!
God bless .... with love,
@nnie.
Sadly Fiona, though people don't usually mean to be hurtful, others often do get upset by what they write on HP (as elsewhere in life) - guess it's just human nature. However, what is different here with Annie is that normally you don't get this sort of remorse or apology which is so genuine here. So, I hope you will forgive her and I hope Annie will forgive herself (and me!) and that you will both go forward as friends. It was because she cares about you that she wrote like she did - no other reason.
Love and hugs to you Fiona,
Judy
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marijke
Thank you for your post, was really kind of you.
Yes T made me laugh too, its nice to know not everybody hates me after all! :)
Hope your well?
Love
Fiona
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Awww Alex
Thank you SO much for your post.
You really made me smile and feel much happier about the whole situation.
Your posts are always so wise and make so much sense compaired to mine! lol
It means a lot that you like them and dont mind me posting.
You really are geat friends!! :)
Fiona [sm=grouphug.gif]
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Thank you Judy for sharing this
Annie has sent me a couple of emails and i noticed in one there was a message she had sent to you in it. So she already showed it to me so dont worry she wont fall out with you [sm=hug.gif][sm=hug.gif] was very kind of you to try and help. :)
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Absolutely nobody could hate you Fiona[sm=grouphug.gif]
luv & peace
stormdeva x