Guys that are way over protective
Guys that are way over protective
I hate dudes that smother their girls. Case in point....
Last night I went out with some people to celebrate a guy's 22nd birthday. We'll call him K. His girl is a Russian chick, we'll call her L. Another girl that's out with us is a "free-spirited" girl, we'll call her D. One of my close friends was there too, we might as well use her real name, Katie. Another couple random people attended. We went out to the college bars in the Baltimore suburb known as Towson.
Of course drinks are flowing (except for me, got all my partying out my first two years of college). We do the bar crawl. We get to our last stop for the night. L and I have little conversations in russian throughout the night (my ex of four years was russian so I'm pretty proficient). L and I would tease each other in good fun, at least I thought.
2am rolls around and we're all outside. After party plans are being made. Meanwhile L and I are still going back and forth in Russian. K had been an ass to me the whole night for whatever reason (he can never get along with any guys). I decided I wasn't going to the after party so I said my goodbyes. Right as I was leaving I said "I'll see you bitches later" to the group. Then L responds by saying "I'm not a bitch!" She then calls me a bitch in Russian. I respond in kind and tell her to "go to the devil" in Russian.
The whole night, K doesn't understand anything I'm saying, and decides he's going to fight me. I get like 50feet away and I hear people starting to call his name. I turn around and he rolls up to me. I got my hands up at like 90 degrees but not a full fighting stance. The dude shoulders me and pushes his body up against me. I grabbed his arms and held them at his side without really any resistance from him. He started saying to me "You're f*cking with my girl....why you f*cking with my girl....." Just stupid incoherent drunken babble. Meanwhile the only one that comes to calm things down is D. I'm talking to him saying he needs to calm down and that it's his birthday and not to ruin it for himself. Being the idiot that he was, while I was holding him I pummelled my way to double underhooks in case he got more out of control. After him being a dick for about a minute, I let go of my hooks and just pushed him back like 8 feet. He meanwhile everyone is just standing watching him instigate a fight with me. Eventually people grab him and bring him back.
So the night ends with me going home, while everyone else went to the after party. I get a call early this afternoon from Katie. Apparently even though I was the only one that had not been drinking, I was the instigator and the ass****.
Cliffs
Went out with friends and an insecure bf for his birthday
I'm the only sober person
Girl is paying attention to me, and speaking to me in Russian
I'm not interested in her, make fun of her
I go to leave and bf tries to fight me
Group thinks I'm an ass even though I handled the situation well
I hate insecure/overprotective boyfriends
/rant
piitb?
he probably would have been a little more at ease about it if he wasn't drunk, regardless, he's definitely insecure towards his girl. Not much you can do but feel bad for hi...no wait. Not much you can do but laugh at him. The guy is willing to start a fight with someone for talking to his girl, he's going to have a nice emotion-filled life. And by emotion-filled life, I of course mean being a little bitch.
Unless you're leaving details out of the story you did nothing wrong. I could see how someone would think you're flirting with the girl, talking in another language, probably laughing often. You weren't all over her, he instigated it, screw it.
I hate dudes that smother their girls. Case in point....
Last night I went out with some people to celebrate a guy's 22nd birthday. We'll call him K. His girl is a Russian chick, we'll call her L. Another girl that's out with us is a "free-spirited" girl, we'll call her D. One of my close friends was there too, we might as well use her real name, Katie. Another couple random people attended. We went out to the college bars in the Baltimore suburb known as Towson.
Of course drinks are flowing (except for me, got all my partying out my first two years of college). We do the bar crawl. We get to our last stop for the night. L and I have little conversations in russian throughout the night (my ex of four years was russian so I'm pretty proficient). L and I would tease each other in good fun, at least I thought.
2am rolls around and we're all outside. After party plans are being made. Meanwhile L and I are still going back and forth in Russian. K had been an ass to me the whole night for whatever reason (he can never get along with any guys). I decided I wasn't going to the after party so I said my goodbyes. Right as I was leaving I said "I'll see you bitches later" to the group. Then L responds by saying "I'm not a bitch!" She then calls me a bitch in Russian. I respond in kind and tell her to "go to the devil" in Russian.
The whole night, K doesn't understand anything I'm saying, and decides he's going to fight me. I get like 50feet away and I hear people starting to call his name. I turn around and he rolls up to me. I got my hands up at like 90 degrees but not a full fighting stance. The dude shoulders me and pushes his body up against me. I grabbed his arms and held them at his side without really any resistance from him. He started saying to me "You're f*cking with my girl....why you f*cking with my girl....." Just stupid incoherent drunken babble. Meanwhile the only one that comes to calm things down is D. I'm talking to him saying he needs to calm down and that it's his birthday and not to ruin it for himself. Being the idiot that he was, while I was holding him I pummelled my way to double underhooks in case he got more out of control. After him being a dick for about a minute, I let go of my hooks and just pushed him back like 8 feet. He meanwhile everyone is just standing watching him instigate a fight with me. Eventually people grab him and bring him back.
So the night ends with me going home, while everyone else went to the after party. I get a call early this afternoon from Katie. Apparently even though I was the only one that had not been drinking, I was the instigator and the ass****.
Cliffs
Went out with friends and an insecure bf for his birthday
I'm the only sober person
Girl is paying attention to me, and speaking to me in Russian
I'm not interested in her, make fun of her
I go to leave and bf tries to fight me
Group thinks I'm an ass even though I handled the situation well
I hate insecure/overprotective boyfriends
/rant
Im sorry. :(
he probably would have been a little more at ease about it if he wasn't drunk, regardless, he's definitely insecure towards his girl. Not much you can do but feel bad for hi...no wait. Not much you can do but laugh at him. The guy is willing to start a fight with someone for talking to his girl, he's going to have a nice emotion-filled life. And by emotion-filled life, I of course mean being a little bitch.
Unless you're leaving details out of the story you did nothing wrong. I could see how someone would think you're flirting with the girl, talking in another language, probably laughing often. You weren't all over her, he instigated it, screw it. I've hung around that couple a few times, and the guy's always been like that. If anything, I was the guy giving her the least attention. I wasn't even having conversations with her in Russian. We'd just insult each other for the most part.
You're right I am leaving some details out.....The previous night I was hanging out with them as well and they were in a fight. I was telling her in Russian to go sit next to him and for them not to fight. He seems like a hell of a guy right?
He has every right to be mad bro.
I'm gonna paint a scenario for you,
Imagine you are with your girlfriend but she also speaks spanish, but you don't know a lick of it. Her friend who is a guy tags along, and they are conversating BACK AND FORTH in spanish. You are going to be wondering what they are saying, as she's laughing at his jokes etc Meanwhile, the night before you and her got into a fight, now she's busy laughing it up with him.
It would feel pretty disrespectful, yes?
an overprotective guy is a good thing,he just cares about his girlfriend alot...just feel good he felt threatened by you ;)
I always believe they'll get over it.... and if they don't then fuk 'em for not ebing able to take a joke.... just saying....
but in retrospect.... If someone were talking to a gf of mine in a far-off, exotic tongue, my brain would probably explode from desperately trying to make sure the dude isn't whispering coded sweet nothings to her, and then testosterone would take over my brain on autopilot and harsh words would be said.
He has every right to be mad bro.
I'm gonna paint a scenario for you,
Imagine you are with your girlfriend but she also speaks spanish, but you don't know a lick of it. Her friend who is a guy tags along, and they are conversating BACK AND FORTH in spanish. You are going to be wondering what they are saying, as she's laughing at his jokes etc Meanwhile, the night before you and her got into a fight, now she's busy laughing it up with him.
It would feel pretty disrespectful, yes? I understand where you're coming from. Later today I come to find out that the reason he got so pissed was because she told him that I offended her. I also found out that he's gotten his ass kicked before over similar situations. So apparently the fact that she and I called each other a "bitch," she told me to go "sit on a penis," and I responded by telling her to "go to the devil" is justification for trying to fight somebody.
I was also disqualifying her in English the entire time as well. I told her that she's not allowed to touch me when she'd grab my arm during conversation and that she should spend more time with the bf. Also when the altercation took place, the guy's brother didn't even do anything. Meaning either my immense 5'10" 165lb ripped frame (sarcasm, although the guy's physique was that of a prepubescent female) was quite the deterant or he knew that his bro was just plain out of line. All my "good friend" Katie did to defend me was say "Matt was a really nice guy for not hurting him; he does jiu-jitsu and kickboxing." If you're reading this, thanks for the support Katie (is there an icon for rolling one's eyes?).
I understand where you're coming from. Later today I come to find out that the reason he got so pissed was because she told him that I offended her. I also found out that he's gotten his ass kicked before over similar situations. So apparently the fact that she and I called each other a "bitch," she told me to go "sit on a penis," and I responded by telling her to "go to the devil" is justification for trying to fight somebody.
I was also disqualifying her in English the entire time as well. I told her that she's not allowed to touch me when she'd grab my arm during conversation and that she should spend more time with the bf. Also when the altercation took place, the guy's brother didn't even do anything. Meaning either my immense 5'10" 165lb ripped frame (sarcasm, although the guy's physique was that of a prepubescent female) was quite the deterant or he knew that his bro was just plain out of line. All my "good friend" Katie did to defend me was say "Matt was a really nice guy for not hurting him; he does jiu-jitsu and kickboxing." If you're reading this, thanks for the support Katie (is there an icon for rolling one's eyes?). That's good you see what I mean. Always important to see it from anothers shoes.
I hate dudes that smother their girls. Case in point....
Last night I went out with some people to celebrate a guy's 22nd birthday. We'll call him K. His girl is a Russian chick, we'll call her L. Another girl that's out with us is a "free-spirited" girl, we'll call her D. One of my close friends was there too, we might as well use her real name, Katie. Another couple random people attended. We went out to the college bars in the Baltimore suburb known as Towson.
Of course drinks are flowing (except for me, got all my partying out my first two years of college). We do the bar crawl. We get to our last stop for the night. L and I have little conversations in russian throughout the night (my ex of four years was russian so I'm pretty proficient). L and I would tease each other in good fun, at least I thought.
2am rolls around and we're all outside. After party plans are being made. Meanwhile L and I are still going back and forth in Russian. K had been an ass to me the whole night for whatever reason (he can never get along with any guys). I decided I wasn't going to the after party so I said my goodbyes. Right as I was leaving I said "I'll see you bitches later" to the group. Then L responds by saying "I'm not a bitch!" She then calls me a bitch in Russian. I respond in kind and tell her to "go to the devil" in Russian.
The whole night, K doesn't understand anything I'm saying, and decides he's going to fight me. I get like 50feet away and I hear people starting to call his name. I turn around and he rolls up to me. I got my hands up at like 90 degrees but not a full fighting stance. The dude shoulders me and pushes his body up against me. I grabbed his arms and held them at his side without really any resistance from him. He started saying to me "You're f*cking with my girl....why you f*cking with my girl....." Just stupid incoherent drunken babble. Meanwhile the only one that comes to calm things down is D. I'm talking to him saying he needs to calm down and that it's his birthday and not to ruin it for himself. Being the idiot that he was, while I was holding him I pummelled my way to double underhooks in case he got more out of control. After him being a dick for about a minute, I let go of my hooks and just pushed him back like 8 feet. He meanwhile everyone is just standing watching him instigate a fight with me. Eventually people grab him and bring him back.
So the night ends with me going home, while everyone else went to the after party. I get a call early this afternoon from Katie. Apparently even though I was the only one that had not been drinking, I was the instigator and the ass****.
Cliffs
Went out with friends and an insecure bf for his birthday
I'm the only sober person
Girl is paying attention to me, and speaking to me in Russian
I'm not interested in her, make fun of her
I go to leave and bf tries to fight me
Group thinks I'm an ass even though I handled the situation well
I hate insecure/overprotective boyfriends
/rant
Answer:
piitb?
Answer:
he probably would have been a little more at ease about it if he wasn't drunk, regardless, he's definitely insecure towards his girl. Not much you can do but feel bad for hi...no wait. Not much you can do but laugh at him. The guy is willing to start a fight with someone for talking to his girl, he's going to have a nice emotion-filled life. And by emotion-filled life, I of course mean being a little bitch.
Unless you're leaving details out of the story you did nothing wrong. I could see how someone would think you're flirting with the girl, talking in another language, probably laughing often. You weren't all over her, he instigated it, screw it.
Answer:
I hate dudes that smother their girls. Case in point....
Last night I went out with some people to celebrate a guy's 22nd birthday. We'll call him K. His girl is a Russian chick, we'll call her L. Another girl that's out with us is a "free-spirited" girl, we'll call her D. One of my close friends was there too, we might as well use her real name, Katie. Another couple random people attended. We went out to the college bars in the Baltimore suburb known as Towson.
Of course drinks are flowing (except for me, got all my partying out my first two years of college). We do the bar crawl. We get to our last stop for the night. L and I have little conversations in russian throughout the night (my ex of four years was russian so I'm pretty proficient). L and I would tease each other in good fun, at least I thought.
2am rolls around and we're all outside. After party plans are being made. Meanwhile L and I are still going back and forth in Russian. K had been an ass to me the whole night for whatever reason (he can never get along with any guys). I decided I wasn't going to the after party so I said my goodbyes. Right as I was leaving I said "I'll see you bitches later" to the group. Then L responds by saying "I'm not a bitch!" She then calls me a bitch in Russian. I respond in kind and tell her to "go to the devil" in Russian.
The whole night, K doesn't understand anything I'm saying, and decides he's going to fight me. I get like 50feet away and I hear people starting to call his name. I turn around and he rolls up to me. I got my hands up at like 90 degrees but not a full fighting stance. The dude shoulders me and pushes his body up against me. I grabbed his arms and held them at his side without really any resistance from him. He started saying to me "You're f*cking with my girl....why you f*cking with my girl....." Just stupid incoherent drunken babble. Meanwhile the only one that comes to calm things down is D. I'm talking to him saying he needs to calm down and that it's his birthday and not to ruin it for himself. Being the idiot that he was, while I was holding him I pummelled my way to double underhooks in case he got more out of control. After him being a dick for about a minute, I let go of my hooks and just pushed him back like 8 feet. He meanwhile everyone is just standing watching him instigate a fight with me. Eventually people grab him and bring him back.
So the night ends with me going home, while everyone else went to the after party. I get a call early this afternoon from Katie. Apparently even though I was the only one that had not been drinking, I was the instigator and the ass****.
Cliffs
Went out with friends and an insecure bf for his birthday
I'm the only sober person
Girl is paying attention to me, and speaking to me in Russian
I'm not interested in her, make fun of her
I go to leave and bf tries to fight me
Group thinks I'm an ass even though I handled the situation well
I hate insecure/overprotective boyfriends
/rant
Im sorry. :(
Answer:
he probably would have been a little more at ease about it if he wasn't drunk, regardless, he's definitely insecure towards his girl. Not much you can do but feel bad for hi...no wait. Not much you can do but laugh at him. The guy is willing to start a fight with someone for talking to his girl, he's going to have a nice emotion-filled life. And by emotion-filled life, I of course mean being a little bitch.
Unless you're leaving details out of the story you did nothing wrong. I could see how someone would think you're flirting with the girl, talking in another language, probably laughing often. You weren't all over her, he instigated it, screw it. I've hung around that couple a few times, and the guy's always been like that. If anything, I was the guy giving her the least attention. I wasn't even having conversations with her in Russian. We'd just insult each other for the most part.
You're right I am leaving some details out.....The previous night I was hanging out with them as well and they were in a fight. I was telling her in Russian to go sit next to him and for them not to fight. He seems like a hell of a guy right?
Answer:
He has every right to be mad bro.
I'm gonna paint a scenario for you,
Imagine you are with your girlfriend but she also speaks spanish, but you don't know a lick of it. Her friend who is a guy tags along, and they are conversating BACK AND FORTH in spanish. You are going to be wondering what they are saying, as she's laughing at his jokes etc Meanwhile, the night before you and her got into a fight, now she's busy laughing it up with him.
It would feel pretty disrespectful, yes?
Answer:
an overprotective guy is a good thing,he just cares about his girlfriend alot...just feel good he felt threatened by you ;)
Answer:
I always believe they'll get over it.... and if they don't then fuk 'em for not ebing able to take a joke.... just saying....
but in retrospect.... If someone were talking to a gf of mine in a far-off, exotic tongue, my brain would probably explode from desperately trying to make sure the dude isn't whispering coded sweet nothings to her, and then testosterone would take over my brain on autopilot and harsh words would be said.
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He has every right to be mad bro.
I'm gonna paint a scenario for you,
Imagine you are with your girlfriend but she also speaks spanish, but you don't know a lick of it. Her friend who is a guy tags along, and they are conversating BACK AND FORTH in spanish. You are going to be wondering what they are saying, as she's laughing at his jokes etc Meanwhile, the night before you and her got into a fight, now she's busy laughing it up with him.
It would feel pretty disrespectful, yes? I understand where you're coming from. Later today I come to find out that the reason he got so pissed was because she told him that I offended her. I also found out that he's gotten his ass kicked before over similar situations. So apparently the fact that she and I called each other a "bitch," she told me to go "sit on a penis," and I responded by telling her to "go to the devil" is justification for trying to fight somebody.
I was also disqualifying her in English the entire time as well. I told her that she's not allowed to touch me when she'd grab my arm during conversation and that she should spend more time with the bf. Also when the altercation took place, the guy's brother didn't even do anything. Meaning either my immense 5'10" 165lb ripped frame (sarcasm, although the guy's physique was that of a prepubescent female) was quite the deterant or he knew that his bro was just plain out of line. All my "good friend" Katie did to defend me was say "Matt was a really nice guy for not hurting him; he does jiu-jitsu and kickboxing." If you're reading this, thanks for the support Katie (is there an icon for rolling one's eyes?).
Answer:
I understand where you're coming from. Later today I come to find out that the reason he got so pissed was because she told him that I offended her. I also found out that he's gotten his ass kicked before over similar situations. So apparently the fact that she and I called each other a "bitch," she told me to go "sit on a penis," and I responded by telling her to "go to the devil" is justification for trying to fight somebody.
I was also disqualifying her in English the entire time as well. I told her that she's not allowed to touch me when she'd grab my arm during conversation and that she should spend more time with the bf. Also when the altercation took place, the guy's brother didn't even do anything. Meaning either my immense 5'10" 165lb ripped frame (sarcasm, although the guy's physique was that of a prepubescent female) was quite the deterant or he knew that his bro was just plain out of line. All my "good friend" Katie did to defend me was say "Matt was a really nice guy for not hurting him; he does jiu-jitsu and kickboxing." If you're reading this, thanks for the support Katie (is there an icon for rolling one's eyes?). That's good you see what I mean. Always important to see it from anothers shoes.