Would this annoy you?
Would this annoy you?
Set scene your out with your GF and a bunch of friends at a nightclub. You are around a big table and soft chair is along the one side ur sat there with friends some other guys sat around table and your gf sits on another guys lap you dont know reason but it doesnt look dodgey or anything. Well this happned to me my gf sat on some guys lap i work with i dont know how well she knows him or reason maybe not enough space or something but i sat there thinking... ummm wtf? He talked to her a little bit but she was mostly talking to the surrounding people whom i know.
He apparently said to her. He works with me he didnt know she was my gf anyway he said after like 3-5 mins of her on his lap "wouldnt your boyfriend get annoyed at you sitting on my lap or something" and apprently she replied "i dont know why dont you ask (my name)" and he was like "oh...." sort of shocked.
And little later she came over and sat on my lap once some space had cleared.
Would you be pissed if your gf did that? i am a little cause i dont know reasons i dont particularly like the guy she may not have had those kind of thoughts but he sure as hell did....
Discuss.
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dude wtf... girls dont just sit on other guys laps especially infront of thier boyfreind grow a pair and dont stand for that shit.
yes?
dude wtf... girls dont just sit on other guys laps especially infront of thier boyfreind grow a pair and dont stand for that shit. Oh dont worry im going to say in convo to her today what was the reason you were sat on (his names) lap....
Set scene your out with your GF and a bunch of friends at a nightclub. You are around a big table and soft chair is along the one side ur sat there with friends some other guys sat around table and your gf sits on another guys lap you dont know reason but it doesnt look dodgey or anything. Well this happned to me my gf sat on some guys lap i work with i dont know how well she knows him or reason maybe not enough space or something but i sat there thinking... ummm wtf? He talked to her a little bit but she was mostly talking to the surrounding people whom i know.
He apparently said to her. He works with me he didnt know she was my gf anyway he said after like 3-5 mins of her on his lap "wouldnt your boyfriend get annoyed at you sitting on my lap or something" and apprently she replied "i dont know why dont you ask (my name)" and he was like "oh...." sort of shocked.
And little later she came over and sat on my lap once some space had cleared.
Would you be pissed if your gf did that? i am a little cause i dont know reasons i dont particularly like the guy she may not have had those kind of thoughts but he sure as hell did....
Discuss. Oh yeh forgot to mention she was sober too cause she was driving.
Tsk, you have to be extremely insecure to get annoyed by this. Girl friends of mine sit on other guy's lap all the time when their boyfriend is around. I've never seen any of them care.
Tsk, you have to be extremely insecure to get annoyed by this. Girl friends of mine sit on other guy's lap all the time when their boyfriend is around. I've never seen any of them care. Well im not so much insecure about it... more just wondering why someones lap of someone she doesnt know who i work with ok maybe there were not chairs and wanted to talk to ppl around him... i mean i dont think she would like a random girl whom i didnt know sat on my lap would she....
It would go beyond annoying me. It'd piss me off. Seriously, get that shit cleared up.
If she sat on one of my freinds laps that she knew for a while I wouldnt mind, since I know for a fact that they are friends. If she does it to a guy she barely knows, is sober, and does it in front of her bf, I wouldn't put up with that shit. She was probably looking for you to get jealous, or else she is the biggest flirt to ever walk the face of the earth.
f- that bro...that would annoy me to all hell....
girls a whore man...
Yeah thatd piss me off. Maybe she didnt think it was a big deal, talk to her about it dude.
girls a whore man... x2 what the hell
I'd let it happen once. Never twice.
What reason does she have to just walk up to a guy and sit on his lap right in front of you when she's at that same table with you? More than that, it's pretty bad when some random guy gets a girl sitting on his lap and he has to say, "don't you think your bf wouldn't like this?". The best of all though, is your girl's response, how did it go? Something like, "I don't give a shit?"
He apparently said to her. He works with me he didnt know she was my gf anyway he said after like 3-5 mins of her on his lap "wouldnt your boyfriend get annoyed at you sitting on my lap or something" and apprently she replied "i dont know why dont you ask (my name)" and he was like "oh...." sort of shocked. This girl is either trying to make you jealous or she just doesn't have the least bit of respect for you (and if she did it probably went down a bit more since you didn't do or say anything). Girls don't just sit on some random guys lap for 5-10 minutes when they are right there with their bf (and when asked if you like it, she replies with "I don't know, go ask him"). Well, girls do, we call them whores.
It would go beyond annoying me. It'd piss me off. Seriously, get that shit cleared up. x2 -- she's either playing games with you or she is "insensitive" -- yeah, thats right, I called a woman insensitive, ha!
yeh if she sat on another guys lap she definetley acting "hoe like" so talk to her about it and see what she says if she says she dosent think she did anythin wrong then she thinks like a cheater so it might be time to drop her depending on how she replies to u..so let us kno how it goes bruh
Nah she didnt mean anything by it got story today mentioned it in general convo among all other randomness that happned that night.
She said 3 of them dived for chair she got it first and felt bad and as joke the guy i work with sat on her... and she said it hurt her legs so she sat on his knee instead. I remember seeing it too it wasnt a proper lap sitting...
Anyway i could tell by her body language and way she told me about it laughing over it she didnt think anything of it or think anything wrong i realise i was just being paranoid to be fair as it didnt look wrong as such.
But if it had been some guy she had been speaking to him / looked like flirting then yeh id be ****ed off.
But im ok now she didnt mean it in that way its all cleared up.
I trust her anyway fully. She is just a bit niaeve like that.
ight thts all good then
ight thts all good then Yeh im glad i mentioned it dude i was thinking if i should... so as i said did it cleverly in mid convo "so why did u sit on his lap anyway?" etc.
I was thinking of not bringing it up.... but man it would have just eaten me inside until i went insane... but im like that im just really paranoid even after getting confirmation it wasnt anything in the slighest im still little iffy over it...
Yep, dump her.
go to home depot/lowes
items to pick up:
2 bags quick concrete
an axe
go to your work.....and let your imagination do the rest........jus sayin...
sounds like a whore
drop her, dont be a pushover about the whole situation. sitting on someone lap is not acceptable by anyone in a relationship. image how apeshit she wouldve got if some girl came over to you while she was there and sat on your lap. your g/f wouldve called her a slut and thrown her drink on you.
this is one of the many situations where they try to pull double standard stuff. of course she knew it was wrong and she was trying to get a reaction out of you.
brief story - about 7 years ago when i was in highschool my g/f at the time had a friend who i hated. well one day at lunch time i walk up and see her sitting on his lap. i walk up and ask for my promise ring back from her. She saying im overracting and she starts crying and asks me if i can go talk to her, she hands me the ring back and I chunk it in the trashcan. He stands up and i belt him in the face. I broke of a piece of his braces(little clip that you hook your rubber bands on) and i had to later pull the little hook out of my knuckle. With out saying anything to him or her i walk off.
cliffs - act like a b*tch, get treated like one.
I still got the scar to this day.
She is just a bit niaeve like that. Are you serious?
Women mature faster than men do. She knew exactly what she was doing when she sat on his lap, and she knew exactly how to play you.
Are you serious?
Women mature faster than men do. She knew exactly what she was doing when she sat on his lap, and she knew exactly how to play you. nah afriad not dude ur majorly over reaction as i said im very good at gauging people... and she didnt mean shit by it. I was thinking it was all down to how she told me about it today.
I guess if it happens again in future im gonna be like hey what the ****.
Honestly, i think she was trying to test you
she might be fed up cause you're not acting like a real man to her
girls like freedom but some are turned on when their guys get possessive
"scuse me. this is my girl you're messing with"
Honestly, i think she was trying to test you
she might be fed up cause you're not acting like a real man to her
girls like freedom but some are turned on when their guys get possessive
"scuse me. this is my girl you're messing with" Yeh i got that planned for next week dont you worry... im gonna be sober when im out kind of giving up drinking i always feel ill and look pissed off so she kind of doesnt know what to do when im like that admittedly my fault im a little unfriendly haha.
But the whole lap thing thats bullshit seriously i over reacted it was majorly stupid.
But next week any of shit like that happens and im sober guy gonna find himself missing teeth and im gonna earn myself a broken hand.
Ive already been possesive over her before some douche was trying to chat her up and she sort of called me over haha i just jumped inbetween them other guy wasnt amused but i was thinking yeh go **** yourself.
Set scene your out with your GF and a bunch of friends at a nightclub. You are around a big table and soft chair is along the one side ur sat there with friends some other guys sat around table and your gf sits on another guys lap you dont know reason but it doesnt look dodgey or anything. Well this happned to me my gf sat on some guys lap i work with i dont know how well she knows him or reason maybe not enough space or something but i sat there thinking... ummm wtf? He talked to her a little bit but she was mostly talking to the surrounding people whom i know.
He apparently said to her. He works with me he didnt know she was my gf anyway he said after like 3-5 mins of her on his lap "wouldnt your boyfriend get annoyed at you sitting on my lap or something" and apprently she replied "i dont know why dont you ask (my name)" and he was like "oh...." sort of shocked.
And little later she came over and sat on my lap once some space had cleared.
Would you be pissed if your gf did that? i am a little cause i dont know reasons i dont particularly like the guy she may not have had those kind of thoughts but he sure as hell did....
Discuss.
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yes?
dude wtf... girls dont just sit on other guys laps especially infront of thier boyfreind grow a pair and dont stand for that shit.
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yes?
dude wtf... girls dont just sit on other guys laps especially infront of thier boyfreind grow a pair and dont stand for that shit. Oh dont worry im going to say in convo to her today what was the reason you were sat on (his names) lap....
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Set scene your out with your GF and a bunch of friends at a nightclub. You are around a big table and soft chair is along the one side ur sat there with friends some other guys sat around table and your gf sits on another guys lap you dont know reason but it doesnt look dodgey or anything. Well this happned to me my gf sat on some guys lap i work with i dont know how well she knows him or reason maybe not enough space or something but i sat there thinking... ummm wtf? He talked to her a little bit but she was mostly talking to the surrounding people whom i know.
He apparently said to her. He works with me he didnt know she was my gf anyway he said after like 3-5 mins of her on his lap "wouldnt your boyfriend get annoyed at you sitting on my lap or something" and apprently she replied "i dont know why dont you ask (my name)" and he was like "oh...." sort of shocked.
And little later she came over and sat on my lap once some space had cleared.
Would you be pissed if your gf did that? i am a little cause i dont know reasons i dont particularly like the guy she may not have had those kind of thoughts but he sure as hell did....
Discuss. Oh yeh forgot to mention she was sober too cause she was driving.
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Tsk, you have to be extremely insecure to get annoyed by this. Girl friends of mine sit on other guy's lap all the time when their boyfriend is around. I've never seen any of them care.
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Tsk, you have to be extremely insecure to get annoyed by this. Girl friends of mine sit on other guy's lap all the time when their boyfriend is around. I've never seen any of them care. Well im not so much insecure about it... more just wondering why someones lap of someone she doesnt know who i work with ok maybe there were not chairs and wanted to talk to ppl around him... i mean i dont think she would like a random girl whom i didnt know sat on my lap would she....
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It would go beyond annoying me. It'd piss me off. Seriously, get that shit cleared up.
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If she sat on one of my freinds laps that she knew for a while I wouldnt mind, since I know for a fact that they are friends. If she does it to a guy she barely knows, is sober, and does it in front of her bf, I wouldn't put up with that shit. She was probably looking for you to get jealous, or else she is the biggest flirt to ever walk the face of the earth.
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f- that bro...that would annoy me to all hell....
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girls a whore man...
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Yeah thatd piss me off. Maybe she didnt think it was a big deal, talk to her about it dude.
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girls a whore man... x2 what the hell
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I'd let it happen once. Never twice.
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What reason does she have to just walk up to a guy and sit on his lap right in front of you when she's at that same table with you? More than that, it's pretty bad when some random guy gets a girl sitting on his lap and he has to say, "don't you think your bf wouldn't like this?". The best of all though, is your girl's response, how did it go? Something like, "I don't give a shit?"
He apparently said to her. He works with me he didnt know she was my gf anyway he said after like 3-5 mins of her on his lap "wouldnt your boyfriend get annoyed at you sitting on my lap or something" and apprently she replied "i dont know why dont you ask (my name)" and he was like "oh...." sort of shocked. This girl is either trying to make you jealous or she just doesn't have the least bit of respect for you (and if she did it probably went down a bit more since you didn't do or say anything). Girls don't just sit on some random guys lap for 5-10 minutes when they are right there with their bf (and when asked if you like it, she replies with "I don't know, go ask him"). Well, girls do, we call them whores.
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It would go beyond annoying me. It'd piss me off. Seriously, get that shit cleared up. x2 -- she's either playing games with you or she is "insensitive" -- yeah, thats right, I called a woman insensitive, ha!
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yeh if she sat on another guys lap she definetley acting "hoe like" so talk to her about it and see what she says if she says she dosent think she did anythin wrong then she thinks like a cheater so it might be time to drop her depending on how she replies to u..so let us kno how it goes bruh
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Nah she didnt mean anything by it got story today mentioned it in general convo among all other randomness that happned that night.
She said 3 of them dived for chair she got it first and felt bad and as joke the guy i work with sat on her... and she said it hurt her legs so she sat on his knee instead. I remember seeing it too it wasnt a proper lap sitting...
Anyway i could tell by her body language and way she told me about it laughing over it she didnt think anything of it or think anything wrong i realise i was just being paranoid to be fair as it didnt look wrong as such.
But if it had been some guy she had been speaking to him / looked like flirting then yeh id be ****ed off.
But im ok now she didnt mean it in that way its all cleared up.
I trust her anyway fully. She is just a bit niaeve like that.
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ight thts all good then
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ight thts all good then Yeh im glad i mentioned it dude i was thinking if i should... so as i said did it cleverly in mid convo "so why did u sit on his lap anyway?" etc.
I was thinking of not bringing it up.... but man it would have just eaten me inside until i went insane... but im like that im just really paranoid even after getting confirmation it wasnt anything in the slighest im still little iffy over it...
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Yep, dump her.
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go to home depot/lowes
items to pick up:
2 bags quick concrete
an axe
go to your work.....and let your imagination do the rest........jus sayin...
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sounds like a whore
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drop her, dont be a pushover about the whole situation. sitting on someone lap is not acceptable by anyone in a relationship. image how apeshit she wouldve got if some girl came over to you while she was there and sat on your lap. your g/f wouldve called her a slut and thrown her drink on you.
this is one of the many situations where they try to pull double standard stuff. of course she knew it was wrong and she was trying to get a reaction out of you.
brief story - about 7 years ago when i was in highschool my g/f at the time had a friend who i hated. well one day at lunch time i walk up and see her sitting on his lap. i walk up and ask for my promise ring back from her. She saying im overracting and she starts crying and asks me if i can go talk to her, she hands me the ring back and I chunk it in the trashcan. He stands up and i belt him in the face. I broke of a piece of his braces(little clip that you hook your rubber bands on) and i had to later pull the little hook out of my knuckle. With out saying anything to him or her i walk off.
cliffs - act like a b*tch, get treated like one.
I still got the scar to this day.
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She is just a bit niaeve like that. Are you serious?
Women mature faster than men do. She knew exactly what she was doing when she sat on his lap, and she knew exactly how to play you.
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Are you serious?
Women mature faster than men do. She knew exactly what she was doing when she sat on his lap, and she knew exactly how to play you. nah afriad not dude ur majorly over reaction as i said im very good at gauging people... and she didnt mean shit by it. I was thinking it was all down to how she told me about it today.
I guess if it happens again in future im gonna be like hey what the ****.
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Honestly, i think she was trying to test you
she might be fed up cause you're not acting like a real man to her
girls like freedom but some are turned on when their guys get possessive
"scuse me. this is my girl you're messing with"
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Honestly, i think she was trying to test you
she might be fed up cause you're not acting like a real man to her
girls like freedom but some are turned on when their guys get possessive
"scuse me. this is my girl you're messing with" Yeh i got that planned for next week dont you worry... im gonna be sober when im out kind of giving up drinking i always feel ill and look pissed off so she kind of doesnt know what to do when im like that admittedly my fault im a little unfriendly haha.
But the whole lap thing thats bullshit seriously i over reacted it was majorly stupid.
But next week any of shit like that happens and im sober guy gonna find himself missing teeth and im gonna earn myself a broken hand.
Ive already been possesive over her before some douche was trying to chat her up and she sort of called me over haha i just jumped inbetween them other guy wasnt amused but i was thinking yeh go **** yourself.