What do u think of when you think of sex??
What do u think of when you think of sex??
I have this f*cking sexual performance anxiety problem / stress that I CANNOT get over with or overcome!
couple years back, it was not being able to get hard
now that I can get hard easilly, I have premature ejaculation anxiety lately
and it is on my mind alllll the time. Couple of times it was fine, but I dont remember how I didnt have that anxiety problem.
it is ruining my life!!
PS. how many times a week do u have sex with ur gf??
also does anyone here take sexual enhancement pills?
your help is greatly appreciated
I love those sexual enhancement pill commercials.... this is Bob, Bob is happy (with a big ol' grin on his face) ... haha
I have this f*cking sexual performance anxiety problem / stress that I CANNOT get over with or overcome!
couple years back, it was not being able to get hard
now that I can get hard easilly, I have premature ejaculation anxiety lately
and it is on my mind alllll the time. Couple of times it was fine, but I dont remember how I didnt have that anxiety problem.
it is ruining my life!!
PS. how many times a week do u have sex with ur gf??
also does anyone here take sexual enhancement pills?
your help is greatly appreciated I hear you, dude. Goddamn nerves have messed me up a lot. :(
Just have some more sex if you can. The more you have it, the less nervous you get and the better equipped you are to perform, at least in my experience.
I hear you, dude. Goddamn nerves have messed me up a lot. :( damn you guys are way too young to have this problem...when im with my gf i like to bone twice a day....i sually end up gettin sum like 6-8 times a week..
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When I get to see my Fiancee, Which is like once a month when I go on refit, I pound the shit out of her. Last time we had sex 11 times in 6 days.
When I'm having sex with her, All I think about it how bad I'm messing up her internal organs. That's the way you gotta do it.
And the anxiety thing, I used to have it when we first got together. But now that I'm comfortable around her and I know I'm pleasing her, I can go forever.
It's just a matter of staying with someone long enough to learn their body and yours.
[quote=82nd_Fister;69252533]Last time we had sex 11 times in 2 days.
When I'm having sex with her, All I think about it how bad I'm messing up her internal organs. That's the way you gotta do it.
QUOTE]
your an animal!
repped! lol
I've had psyche. issues in the past and couldn't get it up. Maybe once every 25 times or so. I was recently with a girl for the first time, so I anticipated a potential performance problem. I downed a otc performance pill and I was a champ. Now I might be concerned that I set the bar too high for future **** bustings.
haha ur ARE an animal!!!!
HOW THE **** CAN I BEAT IT??
it was only lk 3 days ago it was fine, i was pounding the shit out of her, and now this shit comes back!!!!
also how long does ur one sex session last??
thanks guys, i appreciate ur help very much and I will repp u
10-20 minutes of hard pounding all she can usually take. But I take breaks for about 10-15 seconds every once in a while. Stop&Go method works.
Also, I used Passion RX and Ejaculoid.
yea..usually aftr 15 min of poundin my girls had enough .. you can go longer depending on the girl..and if you go slower..
See, I tried that before and I used to go forever, but she said she didn't like it. She just likes me to go for it and I'm more than happy to oblige. :D
She's the perfect girl, though. I ususally eat her out the first time we have sexy every day (Not usually more than that because I blow in her and I don't want to eat my own juices ;P) So Anyway, I was going down on her and I could tell she wasn't really into it. So I asked her "Baby, Is something wrong?" and she said "Sometimes I wish you'd just **** me, I don't always like having my clit played with"
All I could think was "Thank you, Baby Jesus"
Then I commenced to pounce on her and give it all I had.
i think of what my balls would look like draped across her nose/eyes. or how mad would she get if i stuck my pinky in her butt. (yes serious) or one of a million other random ****ed up, goofy thoughts. point it, its all shit that calms my nerves and will actually make me laugh a bit. hence, no performance anxiety.
most of the time that I cant last long is when i stick it inside of her without it being hard, it was always semi hard, then i feel the sensation IMMEDIATELY after a couple strokes and cant help but cum! maybe i wont stick it inside her unless its very hard then i can pound away and control the feeling.
its happened to me last night, well i was VERYYY tired, ran 4 miles yesterday for the first time in months then workout chest and i was ready to sleep. but she was sleeping over and i knew that she wanted to have sex. So i forced myself to get hard a lil, kiss all over her for lk 2 mins then stuck it in her and it was kind of soft still and i cum right away. ****
Maybe have her give you a BJ before hand? Seriously, though try Passion RX. And do it more than once.
I usually don't last long the first time, but then after about 10 minutes of just laying/cuddling/talking we get back into it and I can last about 20-40 minutes. The next time usually forever.
I got pissed last time I was with my Fiancee because on the 4th time, I couldn't cum. I went FOREVER and she was like "Are you Gonna cum any time soon? It's starting to get sore" so I just stopped and held her.
Cuddling Ftw.
those sexual enhancement pills are just a big expensive scam. the vast majority don't do shit.
just smoke a joint before having sex. it'll boost your performance and pleasure better than any of those pills.
I have this f*cking sexual performance anxiety problem / stress that I CANNOT get over with or overcome!
couple years back, it was not being able to get hard
now that I can get hard easilly, I have premature ejaculation anxiety lately
and it is on my mind alllll the time. Couple of times it was fine, but I dont remember how I didnt have that anxiety problem.
it is ruining my life!!
PS. how many times a week do u have sex with ur gf??
also does anyone here take sexual enhancement pills?
your help is greatly appreciated how many times have you had sex? seriously if it's not over at least 1,500 times then you are still learning and fumbling around a lot (even if you dont think so). Sex becomes a comming together of 2 people who want to have a deeper physical and mental experience with each other. Untill you see it as that with a partner, you are basicaly just doing what you can to get by. Just like masterbating is kind of like practice for sex, beginner sex is practice to get you to another level.
Dont stress bro. You probably got embarrased when you popped boners in class for no reason. The same thing is happening now with the anxiety, premature ejaculation, Mr.Softie's ect. 99% of guys have these problems, they just dont talk about them over beers. You will get over it and become a master of your domain. Not stressing is the biggest key.
one time during sex there was a large mirror I could see myself in... I for some reason thought about the scene in American Psycho, and I pictured myself flexing in front of the mirror during sex..... this struck me as funny and I started laughing.....
yeah.... do not do that.... turns out the mood usually gets killed for a girl if you start laughing/giggling for no reason during sex.... I honestly think she began to fear for her safety around me after that...
drink a six pack of beer, should relax ya enought and make ya take abit longer.
Man I wish I had you guys problems. I last TOO long. No joke it's gotten to a point where I literally have to force myself to finish, if I wanted to pace myself I could probably go for 3 hours + no problem. Sometimes lasting a long time can be a bad thing, especially when you wanna just finish and go to sleep.
I have this f*cking sexual performance anxiety problem / stress that I CANNOT get over with or overcome!
couple years back, it was not being able to get hard
now that I can get hard easilly, I have premature ejaculation anxiety lately
and it is on my mind alllll the time. Couple of times it was fine, but I dont remember how I didnt have that anxiety problem.
it is ruining my life!!
PS. how many times a week do u have sex with ur gf??
also does anyone here take sexual enhancement pills?
your help is greatly appreciated
Answer:
I love those sexual enhancement pill commercials.... this is Bob, Bob is happy (with a big ol' grin on his face) ... haha
Answer:
I have this f*cking sexual performance anxiety problem / stress that I CANNOT get over with or overcome!
couple years back, it was not being able to get hard
now that I can get hard easilly, I have premature ejaculation anxiety lately
and it is on my mind alllll the time. Couple of times it was fine, but I dont remember how I didnt have that anxiety problem.
it is ruining my life!!
PS. how many times a week do u have sex with ur gf??
also does anyone here take sexual enhancement pills?
your help is greatly appreciated I hear you, dude. Goddamn nerves have messed me up a lot. :(
Answer:
Just have some more sex if you can. The more you have it, the less nervous you get and the better equipped you are to perform, at least in my experience.
Answer:
I hear you, dude. Goddamn nerves have messed me up a lot. :( damn you guys are way too young to have this problem...when im with my gf i like to bone twice a day....i sually end up gettin sum like 6-8 times a week..
Answer:
rectal openings
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When I get to see my Fiancee, Which is like once a month when I go on refit, I pound the shit out of her. Last time we had sex 11 times in 6 days.
When I'm having sex with her, All I think about it how bad I'm messing up her internal organs. That's the way you gotta do it.
And the anxiety thing, I used to have it when we first got together. But now that I'm comfortable around her and I know I'm pleasing her, I can go forever.
It's just a matter of staying with someone long enough to learn their body and yours.
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[quote=82nd_Fister;69252533]Last time we had sex 11 times in 2 days.
When I'm having sex with her, All I think about it how bad I'm messing up her internal organs. That's the way you gotta do it.
QUOTE]
your an animal!
repped! lol
Answer:
I've had psyche. issues in the past and couldn't get it up. Maybe once every 25 times or so. I was recently with a girl for the first time, so I anticipated a potential performance problem. I downed a otc performance pill and I was a champ. Now I might be concerned that I set the bar too high for future **** bustings.
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haha ur ARE an animal!!!!
HOW THE **** CAN I BEAT IT??
it was only lk 3 days ago it was fine, i was pounding the shit out of her, and now this shit comes back!!!!
also how long does ur one sex session last??
thanks guys, i appreciate ur help very much and I will repp u
Answer:
10-20 minutes of hard pounding all she can usually take. But I take breaks for about 10-15 seconds every once in a while. Stop&Go method works.
Also, I used Passion RX and Ejaculoid.
Answer:
yea..usually aftr 15 min of poundin my girls had enough .. you can go longer depending on the girl..and if you go slower..
Answer:
See, I tried that before and I used to go forever, but she said she didn't like it. She just likes me to go for it and I'm more than happy to oblige. :D
She's the perfect girl, though. I ususally eat her out the first time we have sexy every day (Not usually more than that because I blow in her and I don't want to eat my own juices ;P) So Anyway, I was going down on her and I could tell she wasn't really into it. So I asked her "Baby, Is something wrong?" and she said "Sometimes I wish you'd just **** me, I don't always like having my clit played with"
All I could think was "Thank you, Baby Jesus"
Then I commenced to pounce on her and give it all I had.
Answer:
i think of what my balls would look like draped across her nose/eyes. or how mad would she get if i stuck my pinky in her butt. (yes serious) or one of a million other random ****ed up, goofy thoughts. point it, its all shit that calms my nerves and will actually make me laugh a bit. hence, no performance anxiety.
Answer:
most of the time that I cant last long is when i stick it inside of her without it being hard, it was always semi hard, then i feel the sensation IMMEDIATELY after a couple strokes and cant help but cum! maybe i wont stick it inside her unless its very hard then i can pound away and control the feeling.
its happened to me last night, well i was VERYYY tired, ran 4 miles yesterday for the first time in months then workout chest and i was ready to sleep. but she was sleeping over and i knew that she wanted to have sex. So i forced myself to get hard a lil, kiss all over her for lk 2 mins then stuck it in her and it was kind of soft still and i cum right away. ****
Answer:
Maybe have her give you a BJ before hand? Seriously, though try Passion RX. And do it more than once.
I usually don't last long the first time, but then after about 10 minutes of just laying/cuddling/talking we get back into it and I can last about 20-40 minutes. The next time usually forever.
I got pissed last time I was with my Fiancee because on the 4th time, I couldn't cum. I went FOREVER and she was like "Are you Gonna cum any time soon? It's starting to get sore" so I just stopped and held her.
Cuddling Ftw.
Answer:
those sexual enhancement pills are just a big expensive scam. the vast majority don't do shit.
just smoke a joint before having sex. it'll boost your performance and pleasure better than any of those pills.
Answer:
I have this f*cking sexual performance anxiety problem / stress that I CANNOT get over with or overcome!
couple years back, it was not being able to get hard
now that I can get hard easilly, I have premature ejaculation anxiety lately
and it is on my mind alllll the time. Couple of times it was fine, but I dont remember how I didnt have that anxiety problem.
it is ruining my life!!
PS. how many times a week do u have sex with ur gf??
also does anyone here take sexual enhancement pills?
your help is greatly appreciated how many times have you had sex? seriously if it's not over at least 1,500 times then you are still learning and fumbling around a lot (even if you dont think so). Sex becomes a comming together of 2 people who want to have a deeper physical and mental experience with each other. Untill you see it as that with a partner, you are basicaly just doing what you can to get by. Just like masterbating is kind of like practice for sex, beginner sex is practice to get you to another level.
Dont stress bro. You probably got embarrased when you popped boners in class for no reason. The same thing is happening now with the anxiety, premature ejaculation, Mr.Softie's ect. 99% of guys have these problems, they just dont talk about them over beers. You will get over it and become a master of your domain. Not stressing is the biggest key.
Answer:
one time during sex there was a large mirror I could see myself in... I for some reason thought about the scene in American Psycho, and I pictured myself flexing in front of the mirror during sex..... this struck me as funny and I started laughing.....
yeah.... do not do that.... turns out the mood usually gets killed for a girl if you start laughing/giggling for no reason during sex.... I honestly think she began to fear for her safety around me after that...
Answer:
drink a six pack of beer, should relax ya enought and make ya take abit longer.
Answer:
Man I wish I had you guys problems. I last TOO long. No joke it's gotten to a point where I literally have to force myself to finish, if I wanted to pace myself I could probably go for 3 hours + no problem. Sometimes lasting a long time can be a bad thing, especially when you wanna just finish and go to sleep.