Update: First date to fair......advice?
Update: First date to fair......advice?
Just an update from my previous post on this topic.
Again, she did not call on saturday like she said she would. But when i got up for work Monday evening, she left a message on my answering machine telling me she was sorry for cancelling our plans on saturday and even more sorry for not calling me due to her leaving my phone number at work all weekend. She said she was'nt trying to blow me off. She also said on the phone machine that she hopes we can get together another time.
So I went into work monday night due to me being off sunday night and when i saw her, i told her i got the message and she started saying she feels so bad. I played it cool and told her she has my number, so if she wants to get together sometime, let me know (i didnt say it in those same words) but something like that. I told her dont do it because you feel bad, only do it if you want to.She hept saying throughout the whole conversation that she hopes i am not mad at her, which obviously i told her im not.
I pretty much ignored her the rest of the night, except when i was getting in my car at the end of the shift, she walk by and i said "Good Night" to her and she said "See Yah" (as she was talking to one of her gf's on her phone).
So what advice does everyone have??
Just an update from my previous post on this topic.
Again, she did not call on saturday like she said she would. But when i got up for work Monday evening, she left a message on my answering machine telling me she was sorry for cancelling our plans on saturday and even more sorry for not calling me due to her leaving my phone number at work all weekend. She said she was'nt trying to blow me off. She also said on the phone machine that she hopes we can get together another time.
So I went into work monday night due to me being off sunday night and when i saw her, i told her i got the message and she started saying she feels so bad. I played it cool and told her she has my number, so if she wants to get together sometime, let me know (i didnt say it in those same words) but something like that. I told her dont do it because you feel bad, only do it if you want to.She hept saying throughout the whole conversation that she hopes i am not mad at her, which obviously i told her im not.
I pretty much ignored her the rest of the night, except when i was getting in my car at the end of the shift, she walk by and i said "Good Night" to her and she said "See Yah" (as she was talking to one of her gf's on her phone).
So what advice does everyone have?? You played it off well. Leave it there for now.
You played it off well. Leave it there for now. keep ignoring her or talk to her?
she won't call you first. you can try again later some time when you're in the mood. i never said she has to call me, she can just ask at work also.
Can you get your hands on some untraceable pipe bombs??
Yeah, you played it well. Just relax and do what you normally do and let her initiate things. She needs to make the effort this second round as you tried the first time and she blew you off. Even if she said your phone number was at work over the weekend, you said in the previous thread that you found out she knew her friend was coming into town during the middle of the week, not last minute over the weekend. She had plenty of time to cancel or change plans with you before hand. Is she flaky?
I agree that you did respond really well. You left the ball in her court and she knows that you're not a jerk. Stay cool and let it unfold naturally. If she really wants to kick it with you then she'll let you know. The main thing here is that you have a common ground to work from with this chic. If she doesn't call or initiate anything in the next week or so then try one last time and see what happens. After that if she flakes out on you then forget about her.
keep ignoring her or talk to her? Keep ignoring her.
To be honest with you man, you really need to get your mind off this chick. Quit thinking about her and quit posting about her. Seriously.
The next post I see from you should be a good story about how she came and asked you out and you banged her. No more of this questioning the situation bs. There's nothing to question, and nothing to talk about.
Can you get your hands on some untraceable pipe bombs?? LOLLOL.
You played your hand very well. Like WhiteCollarBoy said, keep on ignoring her, she will come to you. just keep on playing it cool with her like you are not mad at her.
Just an update from my previous post on this topic.
Again, she did not call on saturday like she said she would. But when i got up for work Monday evening, she left a message on my answering machine telling me she was sorry for cancelling our plans on saturday and even more sorry for not calling me due to her leaving my phone number at work all weekend. She said she was'nt trying to blow me off. She also said on the phone machine that she hopes we can get together another time.
So I went into work monday night due to me being off sunday night and when i saw her, i told her i got the message and she started saying she feels so bad. I played it cool and told her she has my number, so if she wants to get together sometime, let me know (i didnt say it in those same words) but something like that. I told her dont do it because you feel bad, only do it if you want to.She hept saying throughout the whole conversation that she hopes i am not mad at her, which obviously i told her im not.
I pretty much ignored her the rest of the night, except when i was getting in my car at the end of the shift, she walk by and i said "Good Night" to her and she said "See Yah" (as she was talking to one of her gf's on her phone).
So what advice does everyone have??
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Just an update from my previous post on this topic.
Again, she did not call on saturday like she said she would. But when i got up for work Monday evening, she left a message on my answering machine telling me she was sorry for cancelling our plans on saturday and even more sorry for not calling me due to her leaving my phone number at work all weekend. She said she was'nt trying to blow me off. She also said on the phone machine that she hopes we can get together another time.
So I went into work monday night due to me being off sunday night and when i saw her, i told her i got the message and she started saying she feels so bad. I played it cool and told her she has my number, so if she wants to get together sometime, let me know (i didnt say it in those same words) but something like that. I told her dont do it because you feel bad, only do it if you want to.She hept saying throughout the whole conversation that she hopes i am not mad at her, which obviously i told her im not.
I pretty much ignored her the rest of the night, except when i was getting in my car at the end of the shift, she walk by and i said "Good Night" to her and she said "See Yah" (as she was talking to one of her gf's on her phone).
So what advice does everyone have?? You played it off well. Leave it there for now.
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You played it off well. Leave it there for now. keep ignoring her or talk to her?
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she won't call you first. you can try again later some time when you're in the mood. i never said she has to call me, she can just ask at work also.
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Can you get your hands on some untraceable pipe bombs??
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Yeah, you played it well. Just relax and do what you normally do and let her initiate things. She needs to make the effort this second round as you tried the first time and she blew you off. Even if she said your phone number was at work over the weekend, you said in the previous thread that you found out she knew her friend was coming into town during the middle of the week, not last minute over the weekend. She had plenty of time to cancel or change plans with you before hand. Is she flaky?
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I agree that you did respond really well. You left the ball in her court and she knows that you're not a jerk. Stay cool and let it unfold naturally. If she really wants to kick it with you then she'll let you know. The main thing here is that you have a common ground to work from with this chic. If she doesn't call or initiate anything in the next week or so then try one last time and see what happens. After that if she flakes out on you then forget about her.
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keep ignoring her or talk to her? Keep ignoring her.
To be honest with you man, you really need to get your mind off this chick. Quit thinking about her and quit posting about her. Seriously.
The next post I see from you should be a good story about how she came and asked you out and you banged her. No more of this questioning the situation bs. There's nothing to question, and nothing to talk about.
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Can you get your hands on some untraceable pipe bombs?? LOLLOL.
You played your hand very well. Like WhiteCollarBoy said, keep on ignoring her, she will come to you. just keep on playing it cool with her like you are not mad at her.