O/T Life Makeover
O/T Life Makeover
Well .. im stuck in a rut basically.
Im only 18 and im proper fed up with what i do with my time. My life revolves around when my boyfriend , college, and going to work myself. Whenever im not at work/college/with BF, i dont know what to do with myself. BF works 4 nights a week now, so basically there open, and i see my friends sometimes but we all live quite far away, so its difficult as none of us has a car, or the money to get there :| What can i do??
I dont have all that much money to say i work evry weekend,basic wage is around £150 quid, with £50 going on my phone bill,and i usually owe money out too and i get £30 EMA a week from college too (but this will stop as soon as i leave in about a month!) but i need a hobby or something. I was thinking of joinin a gym, as i have 4 spare evenings a week, but i need something else too ..
I know most of what i wrote actually makes so sense so if anyone knows what im talking about, any suggestions please :lol: im startin to depress myself, i should be out havin fun at this age .. i dont want to look back at these years and feel i waste my time.
thanks all .. and sorry for the loong story !!
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This will probably sound really strange...but what do you really like to do, other than see your bf? Is there anything that you've really wanted to do, but never got round to it?
You say you're about to finish college - what are your plans for when you finish - job/gap year/uni?
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I get what you mean - it sounds like you need a new hobby. What are you interested in? I like anything creative - cooking, writing, photography. Joinging a gym would be a good place to start, I think!
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Sounds like normal life to me :meh: :)
Do you like sport? Could you join up a sports team of some sort? Or go on a 'nice' college evening course in something you enjoy?
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I don't have anything useful to say, except that i know how you feel :hug: , I'm with my boyfriend most of the time but when i'm not and my friends are busy i'm like a lost cause, i never know what to do, so i tend to lurk on here mainly! i should get a hobby really as well! so it wasnt much use though
Well .. im stuck in a rut basically.
Im only 18 and im proper fed up with what i do with my time. My life revolves around when my boyfriend , college, and going to work myself. Whenever im not at work/college/with BF, i dont know what to do with myself. BF works 4 nights a week now, so basically there open, and i see my friends sometimes but we all live quite far away, so its difficult as none of us has a car, or the money to get there :| What can i do??
I dont have all that much money to say i work evry weekend,basic wage is around £150 quid, with £50 going on my phone bill,and i usually owe money out too and i get £30 EMA a week from college too (but this will stop as soon as i leave in about a month!) but i need a hobby or something. I was thinking of joinin a gym, as i have 4 spare evenings a week, but i need something else too ..
I know most of what i wrote actually makes so sense so if anyone knows what im talking about, any suggestions please :lol: im startin to depress myself, i should be out havin fun at this age .. i dont want to look back at these years and feel i waste my time.
thanks all .. and sorry for the loong story !!
x
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This will probably sound really strange...but what do you really like to do, other than see your bf? Is there anything that you've really wanted to do, but never got round to it?
You say you're about to finish college - what are your plans for when you finish - job/gap year/uni?
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I get what you mean - it sounds like you need a new hobby. What are you interested in? I like anything creative - cooking, writing, photography. Joinging a gym would be a good place to start, I think!
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Sounds like normal life to me :meh: :)
Do you like sport? Could you join up a sports team of some sort? Or go on a 'nice' college evening course in something you enjoy?
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I don't have anything useful to say, except that i know how you feel :hug: , I'm with my boyfriend most of the time but when i'm not and my friends are busy i'm like a lost cause, i never know what to do, so i tend to lurk on here mainly! i should get a hobby really as well! so it wasnt much use though