O/T but so angry I can hardly breathe
O/T but so angry I can hardly breathe
I am literally shaking with anger and have to post on here before I vent my rage in a more destructive way :mad:
I have put up with a lot from Mr Shiny's ex.
I have tolerated living in this sh!t hole with drug raids up the street and armed men hiding from the police in our back garden whilst she refuses to buy him out of HIS house.
I have watched helplessly as Mr Shiny cries himself to sleep because she hasn't let him see his little boy in months.
I have listened with gritted teeth to her screaming down the phone to him what an evil man he is for having the audacity to find happiness again.
But today she phoned him to tell him that if we want to move to a better house then instead of asking for HIS money from HIS house to use as a deposit, that I should get a better job and pay my own way :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
I'd like to point out that:
a) She has no idea what I do or what I earn
b) I have a very good job thank you and earn plenty of money
c) I have paid Mr Shiny's share of our mortgage for the past year so that he can afford to keep paying for her to stay in HIS house
d) I have spend several hundred pounds in the last year on clothes and shoes for their son to help her out (although if she'd have been told they were from me they would have gone straight in the bin)
e) Their son had two large boxes full of presents at Christmas from 'Father Christmas' (aka Santa Shiny), again that she should have taken away if she'd known who they were from
How dare she??? :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
Mr Shiny is away tonight and it is taking all my willpower not to drive over to her house and tell her exactly what I think :boxing:
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Hey Shiny, she's being a cow by the sound of it just to wind you two up, don't let her do it to you. Honestly don't go round there, she'll be in her element if she's the sort of person she sounds like. :higgies:
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Oh hun I have followed your story in rellies before so know she is an intolerable woman. How did court go?
Just breathe and calm. You are a much better person than her, and Mr.Shiny knows that and I bet he adores you for all you do for him and his son. It shows what a lovely person you are!
Rise above it, she is probably saying it to hurt you, dont let her hurt you. Go eat some chocolate xxx
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Shit hey, bloody cow. Like GATC said don't give her the satisfaction of making you lose your cool with her. Try and chill a bit. I feel for you, take it easy :hug:
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:hug: Oh Shiny she sounds awful. I know she'll never be completely out of your life because of Mr Shiny's son but hopefully one day it wont be as bad as it is now and she'll mellow a bit. Just remember you are the better person and the only reason shes so angry is because you've got what she wants!
I am literally shaking with anger and have to post on here before I vent my rage in a more destructive way :mad:
I have put up with a lot from Mr Shiny's ex.
I have tolerated living in this sh!t hole with drug raids up the street and armed men hiding from the police in our back garden whilst she refuses to buy him out of HIS house.
I have watched helplessly as Mr Shiny cries himself to sleep because she hasn't let him see his little boy in months.
I have listened with gritted teeth to her screaming down the phone to him what an evil man he is for having the audacity to find happiness again.
But today she phoned him to tell him that if we want to move to a better house then instead of asking for HIS money from HIS house to use as a deposit, that I should get a better job and pay my own way :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
I'd like to point out that:
a) She has no idea what I do or what I earn
b) I have a very good job thank you and earn plenty of money
c) I have paid Mr Shiny's share of our mortgage for the past year so that he can afford to keep paying for her to stay in HIS house
d) I have spend several hundred pounds in the last year on clothes and shoes for their son to help her out (although if she'd have been told they were from me they would have gone straight in the bin)
e) Their son had two large boxes full of presents at Christmas from 'Father Christmas' (aka Santa Shiny), again that she should have taken away if she'd known who they were from
How dare she??? :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
Mr Shiny is away tonight and it is taking all my willpower not to drive over to her house and tell her exactly what I think :boxing:
Answers:
Hey Shiny, she's being a cow by the sound of it just to wind you two up, don't let her do it to you. Honestly don't go round there, she'll be in her element if she's the sort of person she sounds like. :higgies:
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Oh hun I have followed your story in rellies before so know she is an intolerable woman. How did court go?
Just breathe and calm. You are a much better person than her, and Mr.Shiny knows that and I bet he adores you for all you do for him and his son. It shows what a lovely person you are!
Rise above it, she is probably saying it to hurt you, dont let her hurt you. Go eat some chocolate xxx
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Shit hey, bloody cow. Like GATC said don't give her the satisfaction of making you lose your cool with her. Try and chill a bit. I feel for you, take it easy :hug:
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:hug: Oh Shiny she sounds awful. I know she'll never be completely out of your life because of Mr Shiny's son but hopefully one day it wont be as bad as it is now and she'll mellow a bit. Just remember you are the better person and the only reason shes so angry is because you've got what she wants!