11 yr old and masturbation
Ugh i dont know where to start!! we have found towels in his room with the smell of urine we thought maybe it was our cat but we dont think it is. my dh informed me that sometimes boys pee instead of ejaculating. the thought just makes me cringe but i guess its life. i just dont understand this but he tells me its normal. we know our 14 yr has been doing it for a long time now and have given him "ideas" on how to be discreet about it but my 11 yr old is still in my eyes my little baby! i have no problem with him doing this dont get me wrong its just that i get this visual and it isnt nice! so tonight my dh brought it up and gave him some "ideas" at which my son just grinned and didnt deny he was doing it. what now?
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I guess now you wait and see if he takes the advice or not. I don't know what to tell you about getting that visual out of your head. I'm not looking forward to my son reaching puberty...lol
If he continues to leave messes, perhaps DH could have a (slightly akward) conversation with your oldest and have HIM mention it to his younger brother. Does he take advice or confide in his older brother? That might help.
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I cannot imagine what you are going through. I hope my DH is up for the challenge when our son starts doing that.
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Hi, im 17 now and i started doing it when i was ten, theres not much to worry about because its natural.
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hes too young!
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I guess now you wait and see if he takes the advice or not. I don't know what to tell you about getting that visual out of your head. I'm not looking forward to my son reaching puberty...lol
If he continues to leave messes, perhaps DH could have a (slightly akward) conversation with your oldest and have HIM mention it to his younger brother. Does he take advice or confide in his older brother? That might help.
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I cannot imagine what you are going through. I hope my DH is up for the challenge when our son starts doing that.
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Hi, im 17 now and i started doing it when i was ten, theres not much to worry about because its natural.
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hes too young!